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Seven Ways to Become the Best You

While in a Relationship

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People in relationships often wonder how they can feel good about themselves and maintain a sense of self-worth. It can be challenging when you're constantly putting someone else's needs before your own, but it's essential to find ways to make sure you're still taking care of yourself. Here are a few tips on gaining self-worth in a relationship and staying happy and healthy!


Understand that you are not responsible for your partner's happiness

You are not responsible for making your partner happy. Of course, you can contribute to their happiness, but it's ultimately up to them to find their joy. It's important to remember this so you don't start putting all of your focus on trying to make your partner happy, which can have the opposite effect.


Don't be afraid to ask for what you want in the relationship.

Many people in relationships feel uncomfortable asking for what they want. They may be afraid of causing a rift or of appearing too demanding. However, it's important to remember that you have just as much right to ask for what you want as your partner does. Don't be afraid to voice your needs and desires, and be willing to compromise when necessary. This will help ensure that you and your partner are happy and satisfied in the relationship.


Be honest about your feelings and needs with your partner.

Be honest about your feelings and needs with your partner. If you're not happy, be sure to let them know. And if you need something that they're not able to give you, don't be afraid to ask for it. This will help keep the lines of communication open and ensure that both you and your partner are satisfied in the relationship.


Take care of yourself by getting enough sleep, eating well, and exercising regularly.

It's essential to take care of yourself by getting enough sleep, eating well, and exercising regularly. This will help ensure that you're in good physical and mental health, essential for having a happy and healthy relationship. Make sure to schedule in time to do these things, and be sure to stick to it!


Find ways to make time for activities outside of work or family obligations (e.g., taking a dance class)

Finding ways to make time for activities outside of work or family obligations can be challenging, but it's essential for your mental health. Make sure to schedule in time for activities you enjoy, such as taking a dance class or walking in the park. These activities will help you relax and de-stress, essential for a healthy mind and body.


Set boundaries around how much time is spent together (e.g., no more than two hours on weekdays)

Set boundaries around how much time is spent together. For example, try to limit the amount of time you spend together on weekdays to two hours or less. This will help ensure that you have enough time for yourself and not feel overwhelmed or stressed. It will also help keep the relationship healthy and happy.


Spend quality time together every day, whether it's reading books at night or cooking dinner together in the evening

Spending quality time together every day is a great way to ensure that you and your partner are happy and satisfied in the relationship. Some examples of quality time together include reading books at night, cooking dinner together in the evening, or going for a walk in the park. By taking the time to do these things together, you'll be able to strengthen your bond and build a lasting, healthy relationship.


In relationships, it's essential to find ways to make sure you're still taking care of yourself. If you find this a struggle, I encourage you to book a free discovery call with me today!




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